Music Monday: Bob Marley “Waiting in Vain”
Since I am in love that is all I want to talk about, the subject of love. I want to talk about the ups, the downs, highs, lows, just all of it.
Happy Monday! I’m also going to do something difficult today so I need positive vibes sent my way…
Music Monday: Bob Marley “Waiting in Vain”
Since I am in love that is all I want to talk about, the subject of love. I want to talk about the ups, the downs, highs, lows, just all of it.
Happy Monday! I’m also going to do something difficult today so I need positive vibes sent my way…
Happy Friday! Q-Tip “You” Relationships and New Love.
Q-Tip’s album, “The Renaissance” was released in 2008, but it to date is easily one of my most played albums. The words he speaks ring so true. The situations Q-Tip describes aren’t something I have actually gone through, but his lyrics are so heartfelt. What does speak to me in this song is how a relationship that feels so right at the beginning, can go so wrong so quickly. Right now, I am at the beginning of a healthy, exciting, mindblowing, exhilarating, different, full of communication, full of sharing, loving relationship. I never thought I would find something or someone so quickly, but it makes my heart race just thinking about us together.
Enough of the mushy. Happy Friday everyone.
Hey all!
I was deathly ill yesterday, hence no post yesterday. Thanks to my boo, I am feeling much better.

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I am always obessively looking for new music to listen to. “DJs” are a dime a dozen and good ones are particuarly hard to find. A guy that I went to school with at the University of Ghana put out this mix and I really dig it. Sharing is caring. Listen to his mix here. Happy listening readers!
p.s. This mix serves as perfect workout music!
Music Monday: Part II Kendrick Lamar - Bitch Don’t Kill My Vibe
Finally a video for this track. Bish Don’t Kill My Vibe is my new phrase. It is kind of like Y.O.L.O but less annoying.
Music Monday: “La Negra” por La Santa Cecilia
I am a certified fan girl of NPR’s Radio Show, Alt Latino. Alt Latino is a weekly program dedicated to new Latin Alternative music and issues. Last Tuesday, I was listening to and I found this La Santa Cecilia. According to the lead singer, La Santa Cecilia, is the patron Saint of Music.
As soon as he eschuado las letras, me encante!
“cuando la negra te invita a bailar
no le digas no…”
Happy Monday mis amors!
Happy Mother’s Day! Teenage Diaries, FosterCare to Becoming a Mother
In 1996, after 12 years living in the foster care system, Melissa Rodriguez recorded a diary about getting pregnant and becoming a mother. Now, her son Issaiah is a teenager, and she shares her teenage diary with him and reveals things about her past that she’s never mentioned.
— Teenage Diaries Revisited: Mother And Son Listen To The Past
Also, check out earlier parts of the NPR series: Teenage Diaries Revisited
Have a great weekend!
Fashion Attack! The Style Evolution of Leonardo DiCaprio
“Before he hits the big screen in Gatsby as one of literature’s best dressed gents, we look back at the leading man’s stylish progression from kid actor to A-lister.”
(via gq)
Delving Deeper: The troubling viral trend of the “Hilarious” Black Poor Person
May 7, 2013
Healthy Glow Perspective: I just posted on my personal facebook profile an article about the troublesome trend of exploitation of Black Americans on social media. This article delves into the current trend of “Poor Black people speaking candidly about various serious incidents isn’t a hilarious joke. What is your opinion?
Charles Ramsey, the man who helped rescue three Cleveland women presumed dead after going missing a decade ago, has become an instant Internet meme. It’s hardly surprising—the interviews he gave yesterday provide plenty of fodder for a viral video, including memorable soundbites (“I was eatin’ my McDonald’s”) and lots of enthusiastic gestures. But as Miles Klee and Connor Simpson have noted, Ramsey’s heroism is quickly being overshadowed by the public’s desire to laugh at and autotune his story, and that’s a shame. Ramsey has become the latest in a fairly recent trend of “hilarious” black neighbors, unwitting Internet celebrities whose appeal seems rooted in a “colorful” style that is always immediately recognizable as poor or working-class.
Before Ramsey, there was Antoine Dodson, who saved his younger sister from an intruder, only to wind up famous for his flamboyant recounting of the story to a reporter. Since Dodson’s rise to fame, there have been others: Sweet Brown, a woman who barely escaped her apartment complex during a fire last year, and Michelle Clarke, who couldn’t fathom the hailstorm that rained down in her hometown of Houston, and in turn became “the next Sweet Brown.”
Granted, the buzzworthy tactic of reporters interviewing the most loquacious witnesses to a crime or other event is nothing new, and YouTube has countless examples of people of all ethnicities saying ridiculous things. One woman, for instance, saw fit to casually mention her breasts while discussing a local accident, while another man described a car crash with theatrical flair. Earlier this year, a “hatchet-wielding hitchhiker” named Kai matched Dodson’s fame with his astonishing account of rescuing a woman from a racist attacker. But none of those people have been subjected to quite the same level of derisive memeification as Brown, Clark, and now, perhaps, Ramsey—the inescapable echoes of “Hide yo’ kids, hide yo’ wife!” and “Kabooyaw,” the tens of millions of YouTube hits and cameos in other viral videos, even commercials.
It’s difficult to watch these videos and not sense that their popularity has something to do with a persistent, if unconscious, desire to see black people perform. Even before the genuinely heroic Ramsey came along, some viewers had expressed concern that the laughter directed at people like Sweet Brown plays into the most basic stereotyping of blacks as simple-minded ramblers living in the “ghetto,” socially out of step with the rest of educated America. Black or white, seeing Clark and Dodson merely as funny instances of random poor people talking nonsense is disrespectful at best. And shushing away the question of race seems like wishful thinking.
Ramsey is particularly striking in this regard, since, for a moment at least, he put the issue of race front and center himself. Describing the rescue of Amanda Berry and her fellow captives, he says, “I knew something was wrong when a little pretty white girl ran into a black man’s arms. Something is wrong here. Dead giveaway!”
The candid statement seems to catch the reporter off guard; he ends the interview shortly afterward. And it’s notable that among the many memorable things Ramsey said on camera, this one has gotten less meme-attention than most. Those who are simply having fun with the footage of Ramsey might pause for a second to actually listen to the man. He clearly knows a thing or two about the way racism prevents us from seeing each other as people.
(via lati-negros)
Fashion Attack! The best of the Menswear at The 2013 Met Gala (Click here for more).
Shiny fabric, European cuts, and bow ties dominated the scene of menswear at the 2013 Met Gala last night in New York City. Above are my favorite looks of the night. These men are clean cut, with perfectly tailored suits, with faces full of smug looks.
(via gqfashion)
Music Monday: Adrian Marcel. I’m Still.
Just a little something different. I hope this week is full of positivity and love. I have a lot going on today, actually this week. My bid list for my next diplomatic posting needs to be figured out by tomorrow at 8am. I have a date today (swoon). I have to figure out my appointment to address my health concerns head on. I NEED to go to Crossfit today.
All of these things will get done today.
My American Culture: One of the Best Ad Campaigns Against Ignorance…Ever.
Sexist and homophobic words are a problem.
Everyone has a backbone. Use yours.
(via fitvillains)
It is Labor Day here in Mexico and I am spending the day trying to narrow down my next diplomatic posting. I have to pick 30 different international jobs from a list that has 522 jobs. I leave Mexico in August 2014, but the Department of State says it is time for me to mentally wrap my mind around going somewhere else.
As soon as I know where I am going and what job I am going to have for August 2014-August 2018, I will let you know!

My American Culture: NBA Center, “I’m Black. And I’m Gay”
“I’m a 34-year-old NBA center. I’m black. And I’m gay,” - Jason Collins
I am always one for people staying true to themselves. This story reinforces that you should not wait for timing to be right or perfect. Being true to yourself is a imperfect process.
“The recent Boston Marathon bombing reinforced the notion that I shouldn’t wait for the circumstances of my coming out to be perfect. Things can change in an instant, so why not live truthfully? When I told Joe [Kennedy, a Massachusetts congressman and Collins’ college roommate] a few weeks ago that I was gay, he was grateful that I trusted him. He asked me to join him [at Boston’s gay pride parade] in 2013. We’ll be marching on June 8.”
(via shortformblog)